My Decade Eight began last April when I turned 70. Seventy is old. It isn’t like 69, when you can pretty easily convince yourself you’re still middle aged.
I remember being 15. Both my mother and grandmother needed help threading needles. They couldn't see well enough. Neither was a real seamstress but both were menders. It was a pleasure to see them fixing rips on otherwise perfectly good things. Their natural industry and thrift had been intensified by Depression Era abhorrence of waste.
I was happy to thread countless needles for them but had to work to suppress expression of scorn and pity. I couldn't help noticing that they were just too old to carry on normal life tasks.
Good grief! When I stop to consider, neither one of them was as old as 70 then. When I was 15, Mom was 35 and Grandma was 59. They were not yet into their Decade Eights - not even their Decade Sevens.
Age looks different from this vantage point. I have great plans for this eighth decade. I won't be doing any mending but I have brightly colored magnifiers from the drug store anyway.A good decade lies ahead.
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